Hesed Project

Spaces for LGBTQ+
allies of faith

LGBTQ+ people, parents and allies need a place to connect with each other no matter what the situation.

For LGBTQ+ youth

LGBTQ2AIA+ Youth in the CRC need a safe place to connect with each other. No matter your situation – if you would like to connect with others in a safe, anonymous, online space, we want to hear from you. You are loved here and you are safe here.

For parents

Has your child come out to you? Looking for ways to love and support them effectively? Join other parents for encouragement, resources, information, and support.

The parents’ support groups are online communities of parents and allies of LGBTQ+ children no matter the age. We meet regularly for conversation, support and prayer. The groups are facilitated by volunteer leaders who are parents of LGBTQ children.  

Groups gather online via video call once a month.

Our meetings are between 60-90 minutes.

There are multiple groups and the format varies among them, including things like conversation, formal presentations, information and prayer. A typical casual meeting would be centered around the idea of roses (what is good in your life right now), buds (what possibilities are you experiencing) and thorns (what are your challenges).

Yes! Membership and meetings are confidential. 

We commit to listen, ask questions and allow space for varying opinions.

There are three options.

Loving Our LGBTQ+ Kids meets the first Tuesday of the month at 5 pm Pacific, 8 pm Eastern Time. For information, contact lovingourlgbtqkids@gmail.com 

Clearly Love meets monthly. For information, contact admin@clearlylove.org.

Hesed Project meets monthly the fourth Tuesday of the month at 7:30 pm Eastern Time. For information, contact info@hesedproject.com

Absolutely! Send an email to info@hesedproject.com and one of our team members will get back to you to set up a time to meet with you online.

For congregations

Are you a leader in a congregation that is navigating questions about your future ? Connect with other leaders in similar conversations here.

The landscape is changing rapidly as people and faith communities explore their options and try to make safer communities. Reach out in confidence; we’ll ask a few questions to find out where you are in the journey and then try to provide connection and support that will meet you and your faith community where you’re at. It’s up to you.

Find an affirming church

The number of affirming churches is growing and many organizations are compiling lists of these faith communities. Our list is not exhaustive, but consider these resources to find one online or near you.

If you know of ones we’re missing, please email us.

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